The Mystery Of Love

 Love, in my opinion, is a magical thing. It makes you feel and experience things. It changes your attitude, makes your day, and can even change your plans. Over time, plenty of songs have been written about love and how it blinds you. Jokes are made about how people feel unlucky because they fell in love. We've all experienced love in one way or another. Love can result in happy moments such as a marriage or a honeymoon, but it can also end in disastrous consequences such as a breakup or a fight. What is neat is that no matter what happens during a period of loving someone is that a lesson is always learned. This lesson can carry out to the next relationship or it can linger as a potential downside that you might have. 

Love doesn't have a formula. Sure sitcoms always have a ladies man, but does that character have everything figured out? Of course not. Being attracted to someone else is a feeling. This can be both internal and external. You can fall in love with someone else for more than just their appearance. For example, a person can fall in love with personalities or behavior. Those are the best types of love because you don't just rely on physical features that may diminish over a period of time! 

Why does love hurt? Love can become an obsession, you are physically and emotionally drawn to somebody, this can sometimes drive a person crazy. Feelings of jealousy and ownership may begin to take place and it is difficult to fight these feelings. People of an older age may experience these feelings more than a child. Once a teen matures, their hormones lead them to sexual interests and love turns into lovemaking. A common problem that is explored in TV shows and movies is a breakup, or the fight leading to a breakup. Couples can break up for several reasons, perhaps a partner was unfaithful, or they can no longer stand each other. This is more prevalent during the marriage stages because for some, it is difficult to keep the same partner for a long period of time. Beyond marriage, love can hurt emotions and have a negative impact on the human body. A reaction similar to losing your phone can occur if a partner is unfaithful. Feelings get crushed, your heart feels as if it broke into a million pieces and it is almost as if tears flow naturally. An unhealthy obsession can also occur and can result in disastrous consequences when the opposite person does not reciprocate feelings. 

Overall, love is fascinating because we experience feelings and changes we wouldn't have before.

There is no set formula to make someone fall in love with you.

But you can develop techniques to become more charming...

Expressed by: Oscar Mendieta